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Brigid LaSage's avatar

Fascinating! Definitely witnessed this schism in my middle class family of origin. One sibling who went into corporate law zoomed up the status scale while the teacher and social worker siblings fell into low middle. The individualist values of the elite are apparent in the lawyer family who puts little value on kinship bonds of loyalty. Family obligations are considered "emotional labor" and a hindrance to their pursuit of extraordinary lives. Not their brother's keeper. Social status and sibling competition will always be with us, but the hyper consumerism of recent decades and the decline of religious moral influence has led to a lot of shallow and insecure lives.

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Anna's avatar

Interesting- but I continue to be flummoxed by the argument that the answer is to reduce the elite class rather than raising the lower classes to the elite level. Isn’t that progress- raising the floor? What are the benefits of dumbing down society?

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